Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Traveling differently ala Coelho


Sebenarnya apa sih yang dicari dengan sering traveling ke sana ke sini? Ingin menambah pengalaman hidup atau sekadar kepingin mengabadikan foto-foto narsis untuk dipamerkan di Facebook? Jawabannya pasti relatif sekali dan tidak sesederhana itu.

Saya sendiri baru memulai "petualangan" saya sejak tahun 2006, yakni ketika saya pertama kali mendapat tugas liputan ke Singapura. Rasanya senang sekali, bisa mencicipi seperti apa rasanya tinggal (walau cuma beberapa hari) di negeri orang. Saya jadi ketagihan. Apalagi kemudian saya menemukan partner traveling yang asyik banget, yang kebetulan satu kantor dengan saya. Sudah beberapa kali kami pergi bareng, dan makin hari rencana-rencana kami makin "gila" saja. Habis ke sini, pingin ke situ, apalagi kalau pas ada tiket murah (AirAsia). Langsung serbu tanpa babibu lagi :p

So far, setelah berkesempatan sowan ke Yogyakarta, Bali, Singkawang, dan beberapa kota di negara tetangga selama tiga tahun ini (Singapura, Kuala Lumpur, Bangkok, Taipei, Beijing), saya paling menikmati pengalaman keliling kota menggunakan transportasi publik, terutama monorail (karena enggak ada di Indonesia :p). Senang sekali rasanya mendapati tinggal di negara yang lebih maju dengan tingkat kemacetan sangat rendah. Bahkan di Bangkok dan KL yang katanya termasuk macet itu, saya tidak menemuinya. Bis-bis di Bangkok memang termasuk bobrok (saya belum pernah menaikinya, hanya memandang dari jauh :p), lain sekali dengan bis-bis di KL yang nyaman dan dilengkapi AC. Tapi transportasi MRT di ibukota Thailand tersebut keren punya. Again and again, saya bertanya-tanya, kapan negeri saya punya yang beginian??

Kembali ke kalimat pembuka saya, apa sih yang dicari? Saya ingin mengutip salah satu postingan di blog Paul Coelho (penulis buku-buku beken seperti The Alchemist, The Fifth Mountain, dan The Witch of Portobello) yang berjudul Travelling differently (http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2008/02/07/travelling-differently/). Isinya kira-kira adalah tips jalan-jalan dari Coelho, berdasarkan pengalaman pribadinya. Hal-hal apa saja yang layak Anda perhatikan/lakukan/jangan lakukan supaya pengalaman traveling Anda makin bermakna. Tapi sekali lagi saya katakan, alasan traveling seseorang itu sangatlah relatif. Sifatnya juga sangat pribadi, jadi kalau Anda tidak setuju dengan salah satu tips yang disebutkan Coelho, ya sah-sah saja :p

Travelling differently
by Paul Coelho

I realised very early on that, for me, travelling was the best way of learning. I still have a pilgrim soul, and I thought that I would use this column to pass on some of the lessons I have learned, in the hope that they might prove useful to other pilgrims like me.
1. Avoid museums. This might seem to be absurd advice, but let’s just think about it a little: if you are in a foreign city, isn’t it far more interesting to go in search of the present than of the past? It’s just that people feel obliged to go to museums because they learned as children that travelling was about seeking out that kind of culture. Obviously museums are important, but they require time and objectivity - you need to know what you want to see there, otherwise you will leave with a sense of having seen a few really fundamental things, except that you can’t remember what they were.
2. Hang out in bars. Bars are the places where life in the city reveals itself, not in museums. By bars I don’t mean nightclubs, but the places where ordinary people go, have a drink, ponder the weather, and are always ready for a chat. Buy a newspaper and enjoy the ebb and flow of people. If someone strikes up a conversation, however silly, join in: you cannot judge the beauty of a particular path just by looking at the gate.
3. Be open. The best tour guide is someone who lives in the place, knows everything about it, is proud of his or her city, but does not work for any agency. Go out into the street, choose the person you want to talk to, and ask them something (Where is the cathedral? Where is the post office?). If nothing comes of it, try someone else - I guarantee that at the end of the day you will have found yourself an excellent companion.
4. Try to travel alone or - if you are married - with your spouse. It will be harder work, no one will be there taking care of you, but only in this way can you truly leave your own country behind. Traveling with a group is a way of being in a foreign country while speaking your mother tongue, doing whatever the leader of the flock tells you to do, and taking more interest in group gossip than in the place you are visiting.
5. Don’t compare. Don’t compare anything - prices, standards of hygiene, quality of life, means of transport, nothing! You are not traveling in order to prove that you have a better life than other people - your aim is to find out how other people live, what they can teach you, how they deal with reality and with the extraordinary.
6. Understand that everyone understands you. Even if you don’t speak the language, don’t be afraid: I’ve been in lots of places where I could not communicate with words at all, and I always found support, guidance, useful advice, and even girlfriends. Some people think that if they travel alone, they will set off down the street and be lost for ever. Just make sure you have the hotel card in your pocket and - if the worst comes to the worst - flag down a taxi and show the card to the driver.
7. Don’t buy too much. Spend your money on things you won’t need to carry: tickets to a good play, restaurants, trips. Nowadays, with the global economy and the Internet, you can buy anything you want without having to pay excess baggage.
8. Don’t try to see the world in a month. It is far better to stay in a city for four or five days than to visit five cities in a week. A city is like a capricious woman: she takes time to be seduced and to reveal herself completely.
9. A journey is an adventure. Henry Miller used to say that it is far more important to discover a church that no one else has ever heard of than to go to Rome and feel obliged to visit the Sistine Chapel with two hundred thousand other tourists bellowing in your ear. By all means go to the Sistine Chapel, but wander the streets too, explore alleyways, experience the freedom of looking for something - quite what you don’t know - but which, if you find it, will - you can be sure - change your life.

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